Join me as I continue the conversation with Benji, my gender-variant friend, as we dive into the issues of "presenting" - as cis or trans or other, and "passing" - being perceived as non-queer when you are queer. We even play with the lexicon, minting some new words to describe love:
You can get those "Legalize Trans" t-shirts Benji mentioned here.
I'm learning so much from these discussions (I'd never even heard of Queer Femme before.) Fascinating stuff!